i was remembered the day you said that you will never smile at your workplace. i asked the reason for you to be like that.
"in workplace you need to be serious so that people wont make fun of you, respect you and do the job correctly and seriously." - you
"but even though you ought to be serious in your workplace it is ridiculous that you cant even smile to your colleague." - me
"if i smile, people will step on me." - you
"you are paranoia." - me
how the heck you are thinking when you smile to people you are giving them a chance to step on you? you are one of wounded souls. did someone wounded you that bad until you said like that? if you are in front of me, i will hold you, hug you so tightly and protect you from getting hurt.
i never knew the power of smile could give such paranoia theory to you when i think smile can heal a wounded soul like me. i agree a workplace is a place you need and must be serious but, wont that just stress you out? …